My friend, Phil Cooke (philcooke.com) shared another good idea today. He reminded us that in today’s job market it is as tough as ever, and there’s a lot of competition out there, especially in ministry. That’s why it’s so important to think about the details. Basketball coach Ed Macauley said: “When you are not practicing, remember, someone somewhere is practicing, and when you meet him he will win” That’s why regular practice eliminating these five negative habits could make the difference between being fired or being fired up:
1) Poor Spelling: I struggle with this one, and the truth is, in an autocorrect world, we often forget the importance of expressing our ideas well. Incorrect spelling can completely change the meaning of your message, and often projects carelessness or ignorance. In the business world, there’s never an excuse for poor spelling. And when it comes to digital communication, never let speed be an excuse for writing poorly.
2) A Bad Temper: The business world is rife with insecurity, and temper tantrums are exhibit number one. Whenever you blow your stack – for any reason – you’re transmitting the message that you’ve run out of ideas and don’t know what to do next. Take a deep breath, and keep calm. Anger is one of the most powerful ways to undermine leadership, so keep yours in check.
3) Being Late: Being late tells everyone else that you don’t care about their time. It’s incredibly rude, and there’s simply no justification for it. Start showing up 5 minutes early and see the difference it makes. And by the way – stop being late “because everybody else does it.” Step up. Be a leader. Be on time.
4) Negativity: Some people think being negative is just being realistic. Nothing could be more wrong. No one likes being around negative people. Constantly predicting failure doesn’t create success – it only drives people away. Start inspiring people – even during tough times, and see the difference it makes.
5) Bad Manners: This category includes being rude, self-centered, having poor time management, and even social media addiction. All of those symptoms result in people feeling slighted or ignored – which doesn’t help in relationships. Look people in the eye and be in the moment. Learn to be grateful and simply be a nice person.